I have a question about the Win10 updates. Which settings do I have to make if I want to override the complete update function and still be able to install my own drivers manually?

I know updates are important for a lot, but I have problems with them. Starting with 100% hard disk utilization, to spontaneous reboots while working, to destroyed multiboot systems. However, since I've been using it for years without updates, no matter which operating system and I've never had any problems, I would like to continue to do so. Windows 10 Pro version 1709 is used because there many options for bypassing the update function have not yet been changed.

I am very grateful for information and tips

Best regards